@neeti@eldritch.cafe thatreally sucks to be listening to them so often. :( as there are so few of you to choose (and) to tell so are there so few of them to choose to listen. It's really a sad thing to thwart coercions especially from elders but (strangely still) a brave thing to do. Because where change hasn't started courage has to keep going faithfully. #ithink